How to Seduce a Girl

I know there will be a lot of guys reading my previous post on how to seduce a girl with stories (link) that don’t practice what they’ve read.

Chances are you’re one of them.

You’ve read how to create a story that displays value. You see it isn’t that hard and maybe come up with a few stories you might be able to tell. For some it will already end here. They don’t go out and practice what they’ve learned. If that’s you, you know what you have to do. There’s no way round it. If for some reason you have trouble going out and approaching girls you should work on that first.

Other guys go out, prepare some stories (very good) and approach a girl. They do what they should be doing but aren’t getting the attraction they want. The technique sucks, right?

First, there’s no single technique that is going to work for you when you don’t practice it. Often. Don’t expect to be the perfect story teller the moment you first hit the bar. You’ll have to do it again and again until you’ve experienced the differences when you vary. Experiment. See how some changes trigger different emotions.

Second, there’s the coincidence rule. To explain it really simple: even if you have a big chance of winning, there’s still a chance of losing. Play it many times over and you still have a chance of losing every time. Very small but it exists.

Conclusion: practice, and don’t be put down by failures. Try to improve and experiment.

Many men want to know how to seduce a girl but are afraid they have to resort to tactics that do not fit their personality. That’s ok and not ok.

It’s not ok in the sense that you probably already know that by doing what you always have done you only get what you always were getting. So something has got to change.

The ok think is that I believe anyone can improve their game with tactics they will like. Note that I won’t say all tactics are created equally effective, but that’s another discussion. Become good at some and your game will rocket.

One tactic that many guys like is telling stories. It’s easy to see why. Stories allow you to seduce a girl while being completely under the radar. It manages to help you save face in case she isn’t interested. If you are good at story-telling you will give her a good time. So even if you don’t get further than the friends zone, for them it’s better than being rejected. That’s debatable too, but not the point of this article.

How then do you seduce a girl with telling stories? First you’ll have to understand a bit of background to the approach.

One of the tactics successfull secuders often use is to display higher value (DHV). What this means is that you somehow must demonstrate that you are not like the average male hitting on her. Instead you must demonstrate you have more value than they have. Women perceive value in a number of things like money, looks, good friends, humor, confidence, etc.

You probably already know what’s going to follow. If you want to seduce a girl with stories you’ll have to display higher value through them.

I don’t recommend you lie. If you tell a story about how many ferraris you have she’ll spot you as a lier sooner or later (probably very soon).

What you’ll have to come up with are stories about that time you and your friends went camping and met these group of scout girls that kept you following. She’ll know you have friends, and you and your friends are interesting enough for girls to go after.

These stories can be really simple so don’t be afraid you won’t have anything to tell. Tell her about last weekend you went out and had such a great time meeting people. Make her laugh. As long as you put at least one thing of value in the story (value for women that is), you’ll deposit savings to her emotional bank account.

This ends how to seduce a girl tip 1.